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THE GAME

The Game of Pretending Not to Know You're Playing a Game

Part 4: The Broken Minds

Sep 20, 2025
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These casualties transcend heavy social media use. When Stockholm syndrome reaches critical severity, authentic identity fragments beyond recognition. Algorithmic validation becomes the sole organizing principle of personality. Nothing coherent remains.

The Identity Dissolution Epidemic

Sarah began Instagram at sixteen, crafting aesthetic perfection through minimalist posts and inspirational quotes. Followers validated her choices. The algorithm confirmed her worth. She existed as this curated self for months.

TikTok's discovery algorithm suggested different possibilities. Dark academia aesthetics flooded her feed. Vintage blazers replaced minimalist fashion. Leather journals displaced inspirational quotes. This transformation felt like awakening, not abandonment. Sarah believed she'd discovered her authentic self.

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Six months brought another algorithmic suggestion: neurodivergence content. ADHD hashtags explained her scattered attention. Executive dysfunction memes validated her struggles. Stimming videos created recognition. The community embraced her self-diagnosis. Previous identities felt like masks she'd finally removed.

The algorithm continued evolving. Mental health awareness transformed into cottagecore, which became witchtok, then political activism, then fitness influencing, then spirituality. Each transition felt authentic. Each abandonment seemed like growth.

Four years produced eight documented personalities across multiple platforms. Photo evidence contradicts memory. Sarah cannot identify which version represented her "real" self because no stable self ever developed. The algorithm became her identity formation system, replacing normal psychological development with platform-mediated personality construction.

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The Validation Dependency Syndrome

David's professional identity collapsed when LinkedIn changed its algorithm.

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